Grey hair

So I found my first grey(white) hair back in march. Like a dummy I yanked it out. Too much of a reality that I wasn't yet 30 and had a grey hair. Not to mention it was more like white than grey. My fear has always been being young and having grey hair. My father has been grey & white haired as long as I can remember. I don't want to be like that with my children whenever I have them. I still have my white hair tucked away in the zipper part of my wallet. I follow a young lady on Instagram who has grey hair, and she is gorgeous, she embraces it and loves it. I hope that when I get to that point I will also. I am starting to think some of my "blonde" is going to turn grey soon. I remember my great grand mother having the prettiest soft grey hair I used to brush and play in. I think I may learn to embrace it with that comes another level of care as well. I'd love to hear your thoughts on and care for grey hair
If you have any. Pictures are my dad over me with his grey hair, my parents and great grandma, and my grey/white hair.  Blessings to you
Elizabeth